Too Old to Show Cleavage?

Because things we took for granted when we were younger – sag-free upper arms, a firm butt – are just not what they used to be, we've learned to dress around our changing bodies.

So why is it that so many of us still insist on showing off cleavage well past our breasts' best years?

Regardless of whether you are small, medium or large breasted, time has probably taken its toll on your decollete. Sun spots, freckles, wrinkles and sagging are just a few of the not-so-pretty effects of time that keep your cleavage from looking, well, as fresh as a 20-year-old's.

Does this mean you have to shy away from swimsuits or button your shirt up to your neck? Nope. It just means that a cut-to-there top or a 5-inch line of cleavage isn't your best look.

Not everyone agrees with me that there should be a cutoff date for excessive cleavage. Actress Susan Sarandon, seen here in the photo, is frequently pictured with substantial cleavage at 60-something.

If you, like me, are ready to button up a bit, here are some alternatives to cleavage in middle-age:

• Off-the-shoulder. I'm a huge fan of off-the-shoulder looks at this age because it's a way to dress sexy without really showing anything. And all women have sexy shoulders.
• Draped necklaces. Not only are they chic, they are a way to create a long, vertical line that draws attention to the bodice without the obvious bareness of exposed cleavage.
• Layered looks. You can give the illusion of cleavage by opting for a peek of a lace camisole under a shirt or jacket; you can also layer a tank or T-shirt in a lighter color (white or nude) under a sweater or top that has a deep V neck to suggest cleavage without showing anything.