No matter who you are or what your life circumstances are or have been, somebody (or many people) mothered you and you mother somebody (or many people). Or fathered. Or parented in some way. It's not the biology, the DNA, the color of the eyes or the color of the skin. It's about being the person or people who do the loving, frustrating, inspiring, reliable, relentless work of parenting and being parented.

We all find ourselves in the role of parent and child. That's the focus of my series of posts collected here.

What you write, post, Tweet, re-Tweet, blog, Share and Tag can and will be used against you in Divorce Court

In my Valentine's Day post I warned us all about the hottest new marriage-wrecking trend of finding — and being found by — old flames on Facebook. Well, social media and human idiocy have conspired yet again to

Dear Kiss & Zutell—

Help! I need more questions for this column.

Kiss and Zutell

Dear Kiss & Zutell—

Don't worry. I'm sure all your readers will submit questions in the comment section below. Remind them that there is no such thing as a stupid question—only stupid answers! Tell them you are looking for questions on a range of subjects—relationships, school, work, love, sex, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives, children, teenagers. Anything.

Dear Kiss & Zutell—

My twenty-two year old daughter wants a boob job. I was shocked when she asked my opinion, so I probably didn't react the way I should have. (I yelled and told her it was the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard). I know she's an adult (she makes her own money and lives on her own), so I can't stop her. But still…I'd like to try. I think she's perfect the way she is.

Just a Mom

Dear JAM—

As a former, reluctant Girl Scout, I grew up with the motto, Be Prepared. And never is it more important than when you're a mom.